What was driving you most in those brief moments before you let your lips touch?
For me, every first kiss was driven more by my own desires than by God’s desires for me.
If our heart is not there — if our soul is not already safe through faith, if our mind is distracted and focused on other, lesser things, if our best strength is being spent on the things of this world — jobs, sports, shopping, entertainment, relationships, and on God — we simply will not date well. Listen to Jesus, and “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” Seek him first (Matthew ), and dating will be added according to his perfect plan and timing. It’s not the first rule, but I have found that it is a “golden rule” that most often makes the difference between healthy and unhealthy Christian dating relationships.
But after embracing and applying the first and greatest commandment, I have found that the . If you’re not a Christian — if you haven’t dealt with God before trying to date — you don’t have a chance of having a truly healthy Christian relationship with someone else.
We very much hope that this free service will be a blessing to you.Every first kiss until I kissed my wife for the first time, seconds after asking her to be my wife.Before Faye, I had let what I wanted outweigh what I knew God wanted, and what I knew was best for the girl I was dating.This negative element is one that will not be tolerated on Christian Dating For at any time.We cannot always stop every incident that is introduced on the website so we openly welcome any incident report that our users email to us. We have discovered that online dating can be a high quality, free experience as the number of online advertisers is growing immensely.