When it comes to first dates, most guys waste precious time and opportunities with great women by not actually “being there” at all.
As they sit across the table from a woman, most guys are busy planning, worrying about what to say and do next or worse — just not being interested. Until a man is confident and comfortable enough to be totally “present,” he’ll never connect with a woman in the moment, let alone for the future. It will be painfully obvious that he’s not hearing or caring about what she has to say. I know what you’re thinking…and you’re totally wrong.
Too many women sell themselves short by settling for a man with an attractive exterior.
What’s wrong with the guy in jeans and a T-shirt, driving a Camry, checking his Timex to see exactly when his check is going to hit the bank? Never allow yourself to be impressed by a man’s depreciating assets (cars, clothes, expensive rental apartment). If you’re going to be impressed with material things, at least be smart enough to start with his net worth.
Granted, I’d have to give the brother an “A” for style and originality, but when I said to her, “Wow, he must be paid! He’s living with his mother right now, but he just really likes me.” All I could think was, 'This fool must have fallen and bumped her head.
I understand it may have been a flattering gesture, but don’t reward a man with attention and praise for foolishness.' Now, if he has no problem affording lavish gifts, that’s another story.
Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl.
So we set out to speak to ALL kinds of guys to learn what us women need to know most about the male mind! Sure, confidence is hot, chivalry is not dead and crying WILL freak him out but what about the other things men really wish us ladies knew?